In the ideal world the ideal co-parenting would be this!
This is up to today's date one of the most emotional topics for me.
In the ideal scenario the ideal co-parenting would be…
People, be real! In the ideal scenario and in the ideal world co-parenting would not exist.
It's the same as to say- in the ideal scenario, your disability would be… the annexation would be… the house robbery would be… the war would be…
In the ideal world, children will be born into a loving family, not be shared between two households. Ideal co-parenting is oxymoron by proxy.
Equally I cannot agree with the wording: “The best scenario for co-parenting.”
Like there is no best parenting, no best way to teach children (ect) there can not be the best scenario for co parenting.
Reasons why co-parenting is happening are far too different. People who are involved with co-parenting are far too different. The best proof for that is the line any therapist and counsellor has to hear day to day: “Our situation is different, it's different to us!”
And not long after that, ironically, the same people will say: “I can not understand how my co-parent doesn't behave like those people I (heard about/ read about/spoke about) do?
We cannot see that everyone has their own very unique interpretation for their co-parenting situation. We only can see how unique our own situation is.
Co-parenting after separation is enormously different based on the reasons and events before, during and after separation.
The increasingly more fashionable trend of choosing to co-parent via pre-agreement is crucially different from the subsequent co-parenting that is the result of a relationship breakdown.
Every single person has their own unique story. And somehow the majority of co-parenting resources are still trying to offer the ideal version that is the “perfect option for everyone”. How stupid is that?!
Read more from here: https://storkdeliveringbabies.blogspot.com/2022/09/how-reading-about-good-co-parenting-can.html
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